Jennifer Lopez at Wet Republic at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas (8/18)

Things are going really well between Jennifer Lopez and her 18-years-older boyfriend Casper Smart . . . and by "really well" I mean she's spying on him. So I guess not really well at all. From In Touch Weekly:
"Jennifer's been checking Casper's phone to see if he's cheating," a close pal tells In Touch.

And according to the friend, after hearing about Casper's secret visit to an exotic massage parlor during their July stay in NYC (which Casper has vehemently denied) -- even stopping by the shady venue the day before her 43rd birthday -- Jennifer is finding it hard to trust her man.

"She hates that she's spying but she can't help it," the friend tells In Touch.

But, says the source, the self-proclaimed hopeless romantic is trying hard to move on, and she is planning a family vacation for after her tour.
Oh boy, this is one of those things that makes my job hard to do. Men and women get so lovestruck that they can't see the forest for the trees (case in point Jennifer and Casper). Every once in a while, we at Celebslam have to turn on the bullshit filter that celebs need. Obviously Jennifer is totally into Casper -- she's clearly bankrolling his playa lifestyle. But she needs to understand that there isn't enough money or vacations or TV appearances in the world that will change the fact that Casper LOVES THE COCK. Look, we live in a day and age where you can see a man dressed as a clown get sexed to death by a horse painted as a zebra on your PC in the comfort of your home (email me if you want the link), but Casper is just soooo horny all the time that he'll risk exposure by going into a massage parlor? Come on, J.Lo, that's his way of saying he wants out of this relationship. How many clues does a girl need? Will moving in with Anderson Cooper be the straw that breaks the beard's back?

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